Skip to main content

Some Special(yet some common) Things to START BELIEVING in yourself AGAIN - PART 3

 ... to be continued.

7) What do you REALLY want to do with your life ?

I know that there comes some moment in our life when we start to think that aghhhh... my life is a total waste, I should have died either. But no, you survive and face that circumstance, that critic moment...

Let me ask you a question.

Do you have a purpose ?

No, not an ambition, or goal or a higher post you want to reach, but a purpose.

Let's define it.


Understanding what you want and where you want to go is crucial to being happy and finding meaning in life. That's what we call purpose.

However you probably already knew that.

So, if you are not clear of what to do with your life, how the hell can you figure it out. There's this way, a common yet magical way.

Ask yourself these questions.

1. What were you passionate about as a child ?

2. What makes you forget about the world around you ?

3. If you had a dream, could you make it happen ?

4. What's on your bucket list ?

5. Who do you spend time with and what do you talk about ?

6. What issues do you hold close to your heart ?

7. If you didn't have a job, how would you choose to fill your hours ?


Remember, if you want to learn how to love yourself, then you need to have a purpose that unlocks that love.


8) What are you appreciative for ?

Being grateful is a powerful attitude that can shape your mindset for the better.

Researches suggest that gratitude may be associated with many benefits for individuals, including better physical and psychological health, increased happiness and life satisfaction, decreased materialism, and more.

Stuck at how to develop gratitude ?

It's simple. Keep a gratitude journal.

Here's a great quote from Roy T. Bennett:

"Be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals. If you aren't grateful for what you already have, what makes you think you would be happy with more."


9) It's time to get out of your comfort zone, step-by-step...

All of us already know this thing that comfort zone is a killer of our dreams. And as annoying as it is, it's true.

 Steps !!? to get out of this ???

First, write down the activities that makes you feel nervous. Knock that thing out. Once you get through them, you will feel good and then with time, you will build the confidence and things will get better. 


You will start to believe in yourself and everything that you can achieve.

                ...to be continued.

Thanks for reading !

Tell me in the comment section how you could relate these points to yourself.

For the first part, click: https://mayankthapliyal.blogspot.com/2020/08/some-specialyet-some-common-things-to.html

For the second part, click: https://mayankthapliyal.blogspot.com/2020/08/part2.html

Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Some Special(yet some common) Things to START BELIEVING in yourself AGAIN - PART 5

...to be continued. 13) Accept your emotions without judging them You all know what, you will agree to this. Emotions are very big players, both against and with us. Whenever we experience an uncomfortable feeling, such as sadness, fear or anger, our first instinct is to ignore it, reject it or push it away. And this fair enough, we don’t really want to walk around feeling emotional pain all the time. Emotions give us useful information about our lives. It’s understanding that you don’t need to “control” your emotions. They cannot do any damage to you.  This means allowing your emotions to just be without negatively judging them or trying to change them. 14) Get rid of these 5 toxic beliefs Your beliefs and thoughts shape the perspective of your life. The way you think, interpret and react to a situation depends on your beliefs that matter for you.  But if your beliefs aren’t accurate, they could be negatively affecting you. Here are some beliefs that may sabotage our life: i. The pres
3 comments
Read more

Northern Lights are INCREDIBLE but have you ever heard of the SOUTHERN LIGHTS ?

Southern lights are a thing !!! - The AURORA AUSTRALIS What are the Southern Lights ? Much have been said and done about the northern lights, so much so, that at times travellers have outnumbered the local population of Iceland. But we all seemed to have fo rgotten about its counterpart, Aurora Australis or the Southern Lights, with are just as soul-stirring, if not more. So as winter comes to t he southern hemisphere, these dancing curtains of lights come out to play. Just like their colorful comrades in the north, the Aurora Australis too is an aftermath of the collision of gaseous particles in the earth's atmosphere with electrically charge d particles from the sun. The energy released from this collision takes place the form of the dramatic auroras. Red and Pink color Aurora Australis Green Colored Aurora Australis Why are they so exciting ? While the aurora borealis only offers a green light during the northern light phenomenon, the southern lights entice you with a motley of
5 comments
Read more

BLOG #1 - THE BIG BANG - COSMIC BEGINNINGS

Accepted astrophysical theories posit that at one point there was nothing: no stars, planets or galaxies - not even the space itself. The matter that makes up everything that now exists was concentrated in a single, extremely dense point known as a singularity. The force of gravity in a singularity is so great that the fabric of space time curves in on itself. In an instant known as the big bang, however, the contents of the primordial singularity escaped - and formed the universe.                The big bang is a catchy shorthand for a complex astrophysical theory, backed up with sophisticated calculations. The term was coined in the 1950s by British astronomer Fred Boyle, a proponent of a theory of the universe as a steady state. In fact, Boyle used the term derisively. Though the name stuck, it gives a false impression, making it seem as though the event that unleashed all the energy of the universe almost 14 billion years ago was an explosion. Point of Singularity to the crea
10 comments
Read more