Well, all you read is true. Go for the title once again. It's true. Philosophers and mystics have raved on for centuries about how we need 3 different lovers. Each one serves a different purpose, and there is no guarantee that all of us will make it to number three. Now y'all may be wondering that what are these three types of lovers.
The first one, what we know it as 'Idealistic Love'. It all begins when we're young, kinda fairy tale, where you look to it through rose-tinted glass. What's amazing about this love is that we believe we're doing it for our family and society. In this love, we assume that whatever happens in our surrounding, whether it is a wind that flows right through our face, or a weather-less rain, it is all aligned to make us meet or make us one.
You know, you find the one that is 'just right'. Well, everyone will be jealous of you at the parties, because you're the 'perfect couple', just for instance. The major problem with this type of love ? It relies purely on how other people see you, rather than how you actually feel.
The second type of love, what we come to know it as 'Hard Love'. Hard because, at times, you'll think that you both are fated to be together forever. At other times, you'll want to bite each other's head off. Just so annoying. A phase of not the rose-tinted glass but a phase of responsibilities' adaption as well as a phase of hard times in love, where you think, at a moment, why are you both even together. It's passionate, it's wrong, and it's heart-wrenching. You might break-up, get back together, then break-up etc.
The good news ? You've learned a TON about who you are and what you actually want in life.
The last but not the least, the third type of love comes out of nowhere. When you meet this person, you'd never consider ending up with them. Perhaps, you're not looking for a relationship by now, you'll just gone through hard times, breakups, ups and downs, a time of self-realization. By this time, when you meet this person, you would think that your personalities would clash, but when the connection ignites, it will take off a lightning strike that neither of you are prepared for.
Just fantasize, when you start dating, it just fits. It feels so right. By now, you know yourself better than ever, and most importantly, you know deep in your soul that whom you want to spend your life with. This is what the third type of love is all about. But the bad thing is, many of us can't make it to number three. Most of us get stuck on number two.
All these loves have their own reasons, and the lessons you learn through each phase will only help you grow.
The second type of love, what we come to know it as 'Hard Love'. Hard because, at times, you'll think that you both are fated to be together forever. At other times, you'll want to bite each other's head off. Just so annoying. A phase of not the rose-tinted glass but a phase of responsibilities' adaption as well as a phase of hard times in love, where you think, at a moment, why are you both even together. It's passionate, it's wrong, and it's heart-wrenching. You might break-up, get back together, then break-up etc.
The good news ? You've learned a TON about who you are and what you actually want in life.
The last but not the least, the third type of love comes out of nowhere. When you meet this person, you'd never consider ending up with them. Perhaps, you're not looking for a relationship by now, you'll just gone through hard times, breakups, ups and downs, a time of self-realization. By this time, when you meet this person, you would think that your personalities would clash, but when the connection ignites, it will take off a lightning strike that neither of you are prepared for.
Just fantasize, when you start dating, it just fits. It feels so right. By now, you know yourself better than ever, and most importantly, you know deep in your soul that whom you want to spend your life with. This is what the third type of love is all about. But the bad thing is, many of us can't make it to number three. Most of us get stuck on number two.
All these loves have their own reasons, and the lessons you learn through each phase will only help you grow.
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